Start brainstorming and writing your toast as early as months before the wedding. A rehearsed wedding speech often will flow better than trying to wing it. You'll be less likely to stumble over your words, especially if public speaking isn't your forte.
Wearing rings on the middle finger is uncommon. But if you are not big on the idea of a pinky ring, and you don’t want people confusing it for a wedding band, the middle finger’s a safe bet. Also, some men like wearing rings on their middle finger because it feels central, sturdy, and frankly, “manly.”